single and happy

So, I've been single for some time now. And I absolutely love it! Having been single, I'm used to being independant. I know there are certain aspects of my emotions, where I can handle my own shit. Why? Because I don't have somebody else there to comfort me. Frankly, I don't need it. When you're in a relationship you get comfortable with the idea that maybe, for once, you don't have to handle all of your own shit. That you have somebody who willingly wants to ease up the emotional baggage off of you. Thus becoming somewhat emotionally dependant on them. Fuck that. Because do you know what happens when that person you are so dependant on fucks up? You are left to deal with all those emotions by yourself after you've already grown accustom to someone actually giving a shit when you needed someone. Of course, I love being in a relationship, but I usually take time out to learn about myself and on improving. Which brings me back to why, I am so happy to be single.